How to get my wife to shave her pubic hair?

I am a Chinese guy from an asian country and my wife is a chinese too, I lost my virginity to my wife and she also is a virgin, now my question is I did watch before I married her and white girls don't shave,I kind of think it is cute when shaven. my wife has never shaved before and is very bushy, it is so bushy that her private part can't even be seen. Just her pubic hair, I love her so much so I don't mind, her reason, her hair makes her looks mature and her wisdom and adulthood is in the hair. So when I do oral, I always eat her pubic hair and she refuses to shave, we been married about 6 months already and we make love everyday but she refuse to shave :-( It is not a big issue that I will leave her, but I prefer her to shave, I done everything I need to do, I advise her, I been soft to her, kind to her but she wouldn't budge, she say chinese girls don't shave and she is a chinese and she say her female friends never shave too, she says to either take it or leave it and she wouldn't allow me to shave either, if I shave she would stop making love to me. So I don't shave and have become quite bushy too, so how do I convince her to shave and how to make her allow me to shave and no I am not leaving her, she has been my gf for 7 years before marriage. So what do I do now?