Is is bad that we are all waiting for our grandmother to die?

a lot of elderly people do not age gracefully. I love my grandfather, I really do, but in recent years, I notice that he is becoming a lot meaner. Don't take it personally. I'm uming (and hoping) she wasn't always this cruel to everyone. Just try to think of it as an unpleasant syptom of age; that way, you can try and hate the symptom and not her.